You Deserve Someone Who is All in With You

When someone loves you, when they are truly crazy about you — guess what? — there is no need to go ‘a’ analyzing. You don’t need to buy some self help book about dating, you don’t need to watch YouTube videos from Matthew Hussey or Elliot Scott, because you will just know. Really. It’s that simple.

The level of freedom you get from knowing someone really cares about you is insurmountable. You don’t waste so much time questioning his every move or dissecting every little thing he says to you and what it means.

Because guess what?! When someone is all in and they TRULY care about you and want to be with you, you WILL KNOW. Without a doubt.

When someone cares, it shows. It’s obvious.

Throw the books in the trash. You don’t need them. Unsubscribe from the YouTube dating channels. You won’t need those either.

I experienced this with the last man I dated. I just knew. I knew he loved me. Not once did I watch a video or look up an article for advice about dating. Not one. single. time.

It was so nice not having to worry. I think it’s easy for us to get obsessed with dating advice when we really like someone and want it to work. We over-complicate things and feel like we have to say and do everything just perfect or it will all fall apart. We spend…